Aleks Rybchinskiy | Master Your Man: How To Live Life As A Powerful Creator

“Most people are trying to transcend before they learn to ground. The more grounded you become into your purpose or vision, the easier it will be to create the life you want.” – Aleks Rybchinskiy

Wellness + Wisdom Episode 381

Master CHEK Practitioner and Director of Athletic Programming & Rehabilitation at Primal Fusion, Aleks Rybchinskiy, explores the essence of fatherhood, explains what most people get wrong about men's work and does a deep dive into healing childhood wounds.

How do we live our lives as powerful creators

Discover what inner work practices will help transform a good man into a great man. 

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Listen To Episode 381 As Aleks Rybchinskiy Uncovers:


[1:30] The Essence Of Fatherhood

[16:00] Healing Childhood Wounds

  • How his childhood growing up in Ukraine and coming to the USA at 4 years old has impacted his life.
  • Differences between work in Ukraine and the USA and how that shifted his parent's focus and ability to be there for him.
  • How being a latchkey kid from a young age created a lot of sadness as he felt like something was missing and he turned to himself when feeling alone.
  • What has been able to heal since becoming a father including the ability to better understand what his father went through for him.
  • The fact that he was dead for several minutes when he was 3 years old from Laryngitis and was saved with a tracheotomy.
  • Why his parents had such a strong need to protect him from any harm after his experience with Laryngitis but Aleks rebelled.
  • The work he does as a Level IV C.H.E.K Practitioner and Director of Athletic Programming & Rehabilitation at Primal Fusion.

[26:30] How To Become A Great Man

  • How our thoughts can turn into emotions and then a physical expression of themselves.
  • Why he discusses his client's childhood and background with them first to understand their emotional intelligence barometer before focusing on the physical.
  • How he helps people find out what their main purpose in life is and what they are destined to do.
  • What specific steps he takes when doing an assessment for a new client and why it can take up to 3 hours or more.
  • Why health is deeper than just the physical body.
  • How we can heal the gaping holes in our physical, mental, and emotional selves.
  • Unpacking how every organ in the body has a physical, mental, and emotional process that it needs to go through.
  • Why it took a lot of violence from playing football for him to figure out how to be calm and balanced.

[47:30] Inner Work For The Modern Man

  • How doing the inner work will help transform you from being a good man to a great man.
  • What people get wrong the most about men's work and what they should know about it.
  • Why many men only focus on improving one area of their lives but they need to look outside of themselves to truly grow.
  • The challenges he has faced in his embodiment to become a great man.
  • Why most people know what they want but don't know what they need.
  • Unique challenges he has faced as a father.
  • Exploring obstacles and experiences that most men go through even if they never become a father.
  • What his family has taught him about being a man and how it varies from household to household.
  • His relationship with his wife, Sara, both at home and at work as she is Primal Fusion's CEO.
  • How his upbringing impacted his relationship with Sara plus how he has grown since they first moved in together.
  • How the universe has shown him what he needs to be doing in life through injury.
  • Why his family has been so helpful in keeping him grounded and not working around the clock all day.
  • His advice for men who want to become a father someday and where they can begin their inner work journey.
  • Why having a detailed idea of what you want in a partner and knowing what you need from them as far as support will help you find them faster.

[1:02:30] Taking Ownership & Responsibility For Your Life

  • The differences between taking ownership and being responsible.
  • Why it's so important to create a lifestyle that is based on your values and from a place of love.
  • How he makes sure that the choices he makes are done for the benefit of his relationships and family.
  • Why it's so important for men to have men's groups and have support from one another during their journeys.
  • What spiritual bypassing is and why people who are doing it won't truly be able to guide others.
  • Exploring the various groups that Aleks has led and how his experience doing it has evolved over the years.
  • How he figures out what he will do to guide an individual from a mentor standpoint based on their needs.
  • The 15 – minute pause practice Josh and his partner, Carrie Michelle, do whenever they feel triggered during a discussion or argument.
  • How not to let your biology and emotions overpower you when you are on edge.
  • Why giving up the idea to move and focusing on what's important, his family, led him and Sara to make their dream home possible.

[1:14:30] What Men Are Actually Seeking In Life

  • Why all men are seeking a sense of grounding to know who they are, to truly feel and experience life, and to have the skills to practice awareness.
  • What inner work and growth examples have helped him the most to lead other men.
  • The importance of doing something from a place of true purpose rather than making money from something.
  • Exploring archetypes, processions, and what your true calling actually is.
  • Why his life journey from being in a relationship with Sara to becoming a personal trainer and studying with Paul Chek didn't make sense but it just felt right.
  • Unpacking the moments that Josh feels triggered him as a leader and how being vulnerable and honest about them has made him better at guiding others.
  • What lessons Aleks has also learned by being a leader in men's groups and why that has been so liberating.
  • Why it's so important for leaders to also do self-reflection from time to time in order to truly help others.

[1:34:30] What It Means To Be Fulfilled

  • The choice we have to be in union and harmony with Spirit or God.
  • Big and small changes he has seen reflected in his own life in 2020.
  • The impact it has on him to see people take their pain out on their family rather than self-reflect and find out where that pain is coming from so they can heal it.
  • How to be a more supportive partner when your loved one really needs to work on themselves.
  • Steps you can take truly take care of yourself to feel fulfilled and whole.
  • Why now's the time to focus on your own self-fulfillment and not someday when you have this or that.
  • The moment things changed for him when he stopped focusing on finding a new home and started focusing on making the best of their situation.
  • Why things will become easier the more you ground yourself in your purpose and get clear with what you really want.
  • Lessons he's learned in life including it takes a lot of responsibility to handle knowledge.
  • The power of giving without wanting or needing in return and just watch what happens in your life.
  • Why awareness is actually wellness.
  • How he sets himself up with a morning routine to balance personal, work, and family life.

Power Quotes From The Show

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Everything You Have Is Enough

“If you take the time to get deep with what you really need, whether you're alone or in a relationship, it creates peace inside of you that you've never felt before and you start realizing that everything you have is enough and everything you don't have is just waiting to show up in your life when you're willing to receive it.” – Aleks Rybchinskiy

The Truth About Mastery

“Have I mastered what I'm feeling? How I approach the world? How I relate to the world? How I connect to the world? If the answer is, ‘no,' then I just keep trying because that's my ultimate goal. That's the beauty of the world of health and wellness. There is ‘mastery' but it can never be mastered because it's always changing.” – Aleks Rybchinskiy

How Inner Work Helps Parents Raise Children

“Children are their own separate entities that parents are in charge of until they grow up and hopefully you're guiding them properly so they can relate to the world, contribute to the world, feel happiness, and know how to process their anger and sadness. For me, I've had to take a really hard look at myself to know where I need help so that I can show my children how it's done. Kids don't listen to what you say, they watch what you do and then do that.” – Aleks Rybchinskiy

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About Aleks Rybchinskiy

Aleks Rybchinskiy | Master Your Man: How To Live Life As A Powerful CreatorAleks

is a Master CHEK Practitioner and Holistic Therapist with over ten years in the field. As one of the youngest professionals to reach Level IV training at the C.H.E.K. Institute and become part of an elite group of less than 50 practitioners worldwide, he is a seasoned record-breaker having started his life on this earth by defeating the greatest odds, a kind of momentum that has remained a natural part of his path and continues to leave jaws dropped in its wake.

Aleks Rybchinskiy combines his unique and incredibly vast knowledge in biomechanics, physiology, anatomy, holistic nutrition, physics and ancient shamanic practices and Jungian psychology for an advanced form of physical programming and clinical therapy rarely experienced under one umbrella.

Work With Aleks

Aleks is also a speaker and educator teaching workshops and online courses on shoulder rehabilitation, core function, injury prevention, and enhancing physical performance through the balance and optimization of home field energy systems.

Aleks works with clients from all ages to address strength & performance, pain, physiological imbalances, holistic healing, conscious transformations and much more.

Tribe Of Men

Aleks leads his men’s community coaching group, Tribe of Men, weekly in Austin, TX, and is also a speaker and educator teaching workshops and courses on shoulder rehabilitation, core function, and athletic injury prevention & recovery. He is an active member of Gracie Humaitá Jiu Jitsu where he demonstrates the importance of his professional and personal philosophies by improving himself, also, as an athlete through the artful balance of integrity, performance, discipline, body awareness and recovery.

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About Josh Trent

Josh Trent lives in Austin, Texas with his love Carrie Michelle, son Novah, daughter Nayah + a cat named Cleo. He is the host of the Wellness + Wisdom Podcast and the creator of the BREATHE: Breath + Wellness Program. Josh has spent the past 20+ years as a trainer, researcher + facilitator discovering the physical and emotional intelligence for humans to thrive in our modern world. Helping humans LIBERATE their mental, emotional, physical, spiritual + financial self through podcasts, programs + global community that believe in optimizing our potential to live life well.

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